There was a time when everyone wanted to be cool.
Toward the end of high school, I decided to express only half of what I was really feeling. I can't recall the initial reason, but for the next several years this was how I behaved. At which point I discovered that I had turned into a person incapable of expressing more than half of what he felt.
– reminds me that, to conclude my high school graduation speech, with the unusually tall co-valedictorian, Alethea, towering over and beside me (she is a judge now), I quoted McClintic Sphere:
Love with your mouth shut, help without breaking your ass or publicizing it: keep cool, but care.